DEAR DEIDRE: I CAN’T help but wonder if I might be bisexual after a man at work has been showing me attention.
I am 33 and this guy is 39. I have dated women all my life but now I am not so sure about my sexuality.
I have never been interested in men but something about my colleague is exciting me.
We are interested in the same things and he is always warm and friendly.
He’s a good-looking guy and I really enjoy his company.
I’m pretty sure he is gay and our chat has become a bit flirtier recently.
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He asked me whether I was seeing anyone and when I told him I was single he said he found it hard to believe.
He had a bit of a twinkle in his eye. I realised that I was actually thinking of him in a sexual, romantic way.
I can’t help but wonder if I were to pursue this, whether it would lead anywhere. What should I do?
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DEIDRE SAYS: For many people, sexuality can be very fluid and isn’t often as black and white as it may seem.
It is more on a spectrum, with some of us feeling attracted to our own sex at some time.
My support pack Bisexual Questions will help you think this through.
If, ultimately, a gay relationship is right for you, you can find understanding and support through LGBT+ (switchboard.lgbt, 0300 330 0630).